Monday, September 29, 2014

What Happened to Me at School Today

Today at school, I wanted to play football with some boys at recess.  I walked over and asked someone in the class.  He said that it could be a little dangerous.  I ignored that.  I waited until the ball came to me.  As soon as I caught it, a boy ran up to me and said I couldn't play because I was a girl.  Take a moment to think about that.  Would you like that to happen to you?  I bet you wouldn't.  So don't do it to other people!

Also, today at school, a boy said that I would get hurt in football and said I would get tackled at the beginning of the game, and another boy said I would get hit.  Then another boy said, "No, they wouldn't.  Not to a girl they wouldn't."  That made me feel bad, because I'm a girl and I'm strong and I can do the things a boy can do.  Girls have strength.  Girls have pride.

I thought this was something that happened in the olden days, but I was wrong.  It still happens.  I want to show them that they are wrong.  But if you don't even let us play the sports, then how will we get good at them and then how can we prove them wrong?

Boys and girls are all humans.  We should act like it.  We know how to be kind.  You can be kind to other boys, which means you can be kind to girls.

Things that you can do to be kind to others (a list):

  • You can be kind by adding people in.
  • You can also be kind by not being narrow-minded about other people.
  • You are the same as everybody.
  • If you ever get teased or bullied, it's also kind to just talk.  If that doesn't work, tell a grownup.  Or, if that doesn't work, prove to them that you are not what they said you are.
  • You are being a little bullying if you say that someone can not do something that you are doing.

8 comments:

  1. Kya, I'm so excited to read about your observations on life. I agree that kindness is super important. You are such a good example to me and to all the kids in your class. I love you!

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  2. You've hit the nail on its head, Kya! Good for you for being brave and sharing what you think with the world! Stand up for what you believe in. :-)

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  3. Hi Kya, I love that you are starting your own blog. You are such a bright, loving and intelligent girl. I agree that you should be able to do whatever it Is that you want to do, even if its football. Girls can play football too!! Your uncle Josh, little Joshua, Alan and I send you lots of hugs and kisses <3 Love you Kya!

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  4. Kya, You rock! Keep sharing your thoughts and ideas on this site. We all can learn a lot from you!

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  5. Kya, with girls like you out there, all of us grownups have a lot of hope for the future. Keep up the good work!

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  6. Kindness is really important. I hope that you won't let other people choosing to be unkind to you change your mind to be kind to others. And girls are totally strong and capable. And boys can excel at non-traditional roles too. The best response to someone saying to can't do something is to do it anyway. Really, really well if you can. :)

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